Children's Education

3 to 7 years for the baby’s parents to discipline their children is often ineffective and do nothing, whether you are a chatter or shouting in order to persuade the child completely ignored. Do not know if you have not thought about that for an educational approach it? If children do something wrong often shouted, not only been ineffective, but on the child’s personality development, mental health adversely affected.
What psychologists do on the expression of what kind of tone that has been studied and found that dealing with the same thing, different tones will receive different results, adults criticize the child, the child more receptive to using a low voice tone. This is because:
1. Low voice tone can make a reasonable number, a number of emotional peace, but also allows the child conflict with the psychological line of defense has been antagonistic relaxation, conducive to communication.

2. Whispered criticism of the child, not only to focus on each other’s hearing, but can also pre-empt the children with high tone. Life often see adults loudly scolded the child, the voice of resistance is not low, the two sides become increasingly agitated mood, and finally angered angry adults and children do not accept this.

3. Whispered tone can be rid of anger. Parents are their children’s life, the longest teachers teach adults in the words of the children most affected, failing to temper, not cool, opening rant of the parents, the child’s character certainly has a subtle effect.

Suggested that parents speak with their children do the following:

1. Use the right tone and wording. For many parents concerned, to control their own children is hard not to criticize, so please think twice before speaking, using appropriate tone and language, the effect will be good. Such as “I love you, but I can not accept your behavior,” such words might sound will feel very stiff, but after a while, the children will naturally understand what you mean.

2. The child to do what you expect the request to explain it to them. Such as water and soil with children, told him not to tamper with goods, and warned of consequences if the violation is. You have to implement from start to finish in the end, no loud threats.

3. Do not use the language of harm to the child self-esteem to minimize criticism of the child.