Children's Education

Children learn not concentrate, really nerve-racking for parents. If a child born stupid, simply not reading the material, psychological parents may be relatively calm. Children obviously can be very clever, many of the exercises can be difficult to do them, but just can not concentrate minds in learning. Therefore, some parents and even despair, rather some “turn iron into steel” flavor.
I often hear parents complain about kids doing their homework so the case when the absent-minded, teachers often say that students not paying attention in class, the net desertion. . . . . . Shows that children learn not paying attention, really nerve-racking for parents. When children learn how to correct the bad habit of distraction? I am here to talk about my experience, for your reference.
1, parents can not accompany their children to promote reading. As one authority says: “Some children learn procrastinating because it is not to develop good study habits, more is because their parents too much about their homework, and even arranged ghostwriting.” In fact, most experts in child education are not in favor of the parents to accompany kids to school because parents can not help but always urges children not to do so, but to do so. The language of intermittent stimulation, the child’s attention more easily dispersed. And give the children produced a strong dependence on the parents.
2, found that children symptom of inattention. For example, some children with inattention because of “ADHD”, which need to see a psychiatrist. Lack of concentration has the following symptom: often no reason to fidget, as if what is not interested in; on any one thing can not be maintained for a longer time to focus; in the classroom, eyes limpid and there exists, not their own know what they are thinking about.
3, give the child a clear deadline to complete work. For example can the kids: You can not hurry, but you must complete the work before 8 o’clock, otherwise, the weekend can do nothing other. Foster the children’s time urgency, and slowly let the children form a learning rule. With a clear mandate, there will be a driving force when children learn to keep tension. Certainly, children learn, the time can not be too long, also can not ask a child a long time to do the same thing. Because these are the children of concentration factor.
4, to the child an appropriate reward. For example, when children complete homework, parents should be commended not only from the verbal, but also supporting a number of other awards. Meanwhile, children can also set an imaginary rival, to remind him “who just spent an hour every night operation can be done, still have time to watch cartoons or something.”
5, for children to create a good learning environment. Many children can not concentrate, mainly with the family environment. Some parents go to work tired during the day, night like watching TV, and sound great, there are parents like to neighbors, colleagues around playing mahjong at home, this will definitely affect the child’s attention. When the children learn, parents must keep quiet. Do not let the children aware of parents are doing. If parents have maintained good reading, study habits, children will be able to see around. In addition, children learn to pay attention to rule out the interference factor.
6, inner child timely lift depression. When heavier psychological pressure on the child when the child’s attention can not focus. Many children fear test, in particular the fear that parents are warned to “will determine the fate of a lifetime,” the test. To this end, the children often uneasy, even cranky. Carrying a heavy psychological burden, the child can not concentrate on their studies of natural. Therefore, provided that good parents are a child’s psychological comfort competent teacher.
7, the main train children’s sense of responsibility. Parents should let children know that learning is something a child myself, intention to learn, is responsible for their own future. Through hard study and master the skills, the future capital of a place in society. One pair of their own children are not responsible for the future is impossible to care about and love others, not to mention big business can make something come.
8, to explore the interest of children. If a student is not interested in homework that door, it is very difficult for him to concentrate. If the child learning the contents of the spirits, who do not have to be able to concentrate on supervision. Interest is the best teacher, is an important condition for success.
9, the children learn the speed and difficulty should be moderate. In every age, children have received a certain amount of new knowledge. When asked children to learn too fast, the children will certainly gulping. If the speed is too slow, the child’s mind it is easy to slack off, resulting in desertion, going God. At the same time, the content too difficult to learn if the child, the child can not really understand thoroughly, up to no interest in learning to speak, desertion inevitable. On the contrary, if the child’s too simple to learn, the child will feel dull, can also cause lack of concentration.
10, note the child’s physical condition, do not let children fight fatigue. Fatigue, disease, hunger and drowsiness, often make adults feel energy lax, powerless. When the child physically and mentally exhausted, the parents also require that children adhere to teeth, natural learning is compromised, certainly not focused attention.