Children's Education

A child must choose the best educational opportunity

Peasant farming to seize farming, war to seize the aircraft, educate their children too, be sure to select the best opportunities. The same education, if not the same as the election time, the effect is much different. For example the movie “Wrangler” in the master Li Xiuzhi, the implementation of policies in love a lot of wage replacement, the son of their innocent and naive, said: “Yeah, so much money, right when I grow up!” hero of the film tightly to seize this opportunity, teaching his son and said: “rely on their own earned money. spend it interesting, is not one of their earned and do not!” it was quite small, but it reflects the work Women’s self, hard-working and noble quality, but also to seize the educational children’s best “level of attainment.” Such a “better” in our real life can be found at any time, education, children must seize this best 时机.

Second, educate their children must pay attention to “clever” and the art of combining

When children and their parents request happen “top cow”, they should take a roundabout way. To divert attention, but to manipulate arts, this will be his emotional stability, further education, such as you bring the child to visit the department store’s children’s toy store, we had wanted him to broaden their horizons, but he saw the hundred non-car buying is not for children, not reasons to buy him two points, first, the old home of a second, not with so much money today, but he more than crying, a lot of crowd of people , you are sweating him in trouble, unable to leave the department store in the case, you suddenly think of a way to divert attention, said: “Yesterday I heard you say you are in kindergarten teacher with a beautiful small building blocks covered , and cover the faster and better, come, we look at the bricks and building blocks of your kindergarten is not the same. “He definitely will be an eye fixed on the building block, then stopped crying, and tell you went to the blocks, and select the building blocks of a Fuxin Ying He would also be happy to follow you home. This method of education is “clever” and “artistic” combination, which requires parents to be good at specific situations, adaptable to take effective educational methods.

Three children were outraged when the parents have to learn to cold treatment.

When the child had a dispute and fight, the mood is very unstable, and parents how to be patience, patience, and then be patient! Calm, cool, then cool! Such as: They dispute when you judge, you see they are angry, the way you want to calm things calm down in the hands, smiled and said: “You both have opinions, I have opinions on it?” This sudden The question to both of them are out stunned, and spoke with one voice to say “no”, then you say, “OK, first eaten the apple to give you an evaluation, at the eating when no one allowed to speak. eat speech unsanitary. “and so Apple finished, gas consumption was also similar, and then they fight you do not Jizhe Wen things, machines are you going to ask them apples? They would say “delicious”, you take the opportunity to say: “No light to eat apples may help me down the garbage.” And so they carried the garbage down when finished. You say “just a fight, right?” In this case, not recriminations, only rushing to recognize their “right.” But you still have to consult the case, the premise of understanding the situation, you can properly criticize a few words to him made it clear sense of friendship, they convinced each other to apologize, then you can say: “Well, then a will play it. “If you start asking them who is right, who certainly is not willing to admit. But some parents cultivation differential, only to see their children well, lest their children suffer, which is very bad family tradition. Treatment of this storm is called “cold treatment” of anger that way for the transfer of hi “to know that the introduction of”, “affection”, the “meaning tree,” and “to line training people.” This is the education of their children, but also educated the children of other people, you have the authority of the child’s mind, on the contrary, the parents of two children, have reason to dispute their children, in the end to fight for it? Competition to result spoiled their children, the children do not recognize goes wrong, the parents have lost credibility. Such instances are many in real life.

Four pairs of children to “strict”, “love” moderate.

Many of the parents of the “strict” and “love” not appropriate to grasp the error of the obedience as “love”, and some believe that strict discipline is the “love”, there are those who think that children do not play no talent, in fact, these are one-sided and wrong understanding.

Real “love” children, children must be a comprehensive analysis of the characteristics and advantages and disadvantages. The right to guide how they should do, not how to do it should not make them really understand: what is good and what is beautiful and what is real and what is fake and what is evil and what is ugly. To early to point out their possible shortcomings and to take concrete and comment is in recognition of the abstract. Love to do is not spoiled, discipline is not mandatory, to let go is not a laissez-faire, strictly not beaten, the real body of a child: “There are strict grid, combined with tough love, love, strict moderation.” Must not engage in the kind of hot and cold form of family education, so children will know what to do, at a loss.