Children's Education

The first secret: that the children themselves become

Whether parents have a childlike innocence, it is very important. Playful spirit, to put aside “adult”, “parents” and other status. When you accept the child, the child may have to accept you.

The second secret: and the children live close.

To understand their children, to more contacts with the children, from their language and behavior to understand their thoughts, preferences, internal need.

The third secret: pay attention to children’s reactions and attitudes.

Due to the busy modern parents, and children speak in, often eager to express their views and instructions obediently according to their own expectations of their children, then do not have the best views. So, are often not very carefully listening to the child if the child feels uncomfortable with their parents, the generation gap more and more inevitable.

The fourth secret: understanding children’s feelings.

When a child outside had been wronged, and good friend or beloved pet separation, he will be sad and delicate little heart half. First, parents were only told him blindly, “Never mind, a strong point,” “This is nothing so hard to” make little children feel their parents can not understand his feelings, if the parents said: “You sad, right? If I were you also have this feeling. “I believe there will be very different effect.

The fifth secret: understanding the child’s level of development.

If the parents say their children do not understand the words, or make some children fail to be expressed, I believe, children feel hard pressure, parent-child dialogue are bound to be on the line Nanyi ride.

The sixth secret: Answer children’s questions.

Children ask questions, they should first understand its true meaning, and for the child’s need to do to answer. For example, a child asked: “Mom, do you want to buy food?” The real significance of this issue is: “Mom, I want to go grocery shopping with you.” If you know the real purpose of the child, we can say: “Yes ah! Do you want to go? “hearing will be very happy child.

In addition, children referred to the knowledge problem, parents need to carefully answer, or find an answer together with their children, so that after the child regardless of any problems encountered, will take the initiative to ask their parents.

The seventh secret: avoid using negative significance of the speech tone.

Can not use “I command you ……”,” I warn you ……”,” you’d better hurry …..”" limit you in 5 seconds ….. . “” I count to one, two, three ….. or …..,”" you should …..”,” You are very stupid, “” Hello Central “and” You too let me down, “and” can not …..” and so with the command, command, warning, threat, blame, abuse, rejection and other negative sense of the words tone.

The eighth secret: often transform new topic.

This can cause children’s interests, such as: “Can you guess what happened today, I?” “Do you know why the children’s favorite dinosaur?” “If one day the astronauts do not see the earth … .. “and other issues, I believe than the” bad day today? “” Happy is not happy “more smoke a child.

The ninth secret: to enrich the child’s life experience.

Family of the talk topics, often from life, hence a sharp among children, curious mind is very important. Parents can lead the children observe all things around, like a flower plants, road car colors, shapes, brands, in the street wearing a dress, speech content, department store windows, and many, that statement can be material, the children The observation will naturally increase