Children's Education

Many parents often to your baby’s emotional, and headache. The face of a child improper conduct, behavior, the so parents should first understand its causes, then the appropriate approach. However, if the child to throw things, fighting, etc., to achieve their own ends, parents will be given appropriate punishment for these kids to understand his behavior is wrong.

What are the ways to let the children be reconsidered and alert the next time will not make the same fault?

1, advise

Case: a fight with companions, to snatch toys … …

Ways: first, put aside work and went to the child and letting the child know that you are attention and concern; then asked the child dispute, arguing the reasons for, and patiently listening to the child’s mind; to encourage children to beat, rob is not correct behavior and ideas, and asked the child to learn to say “please, thank you, I’m sorry.”

Recommendation: Do not sound to great to hold him down or threaten a child; do not pull directly to the child, and then yelled at her child is not; speech to avoid injury among children’s self-esteem.

2, reprimanded

Case: fight, throw things … …

By: stick a piece of paper with newspaper production, appearance can be wrapped in a layer of wrapping paper; give it a name, such as guard bars, Chen bar … …; placed in a fixed place as a guard.

Recommendation: When in a good mood, production, and discuss with children the reasons for making guard bar; punish a child, let him say where he was wrong; remind the reasons for punishment; attention to security issues, playing the part with the palm, ass mainly other parts of the should be avoided.

3, fine ride

Case: constant arguing, quarreling … …

Way: put in the penalty area on a cushion or a chair, can be a name; ready alarm clock or clock, time penalty minutes.

Recommendation: Location straight penalties on the door, not so obvious places; limited punishment time, or let the children tell how long the time penalty; punishment finished, let the children say the reasons for this are punished.

4, help with household chores

Case: graffiti, litter and toys … …

By: preparing a rag, broom, pot and other cleaning tools, let the children clean up and develop clean habits.

Recommendation: Parents should always pay attention to children’s safety; young children with their parents to lead by doing housework; train the child to develop the habit of proper order; asked to help the family when the child learn anything.

5, drawing

Case: like the curse, arrests, kicking, biting and other little tricks.

Ways: according to family situation, a fixed office placed a small table (the punishment is usually best not to use the table to the desk, dining table, guest tables, etc., so that the children in the future use of these tables, it will generate fear, fear psychological); prepare a picture album and a different color pen, let the children draw, write desires.

Recommendation: When the child is injured, first to site of injury and then punished; the time the child will occur and draw down the wrong thing; adults to control their emotions before, can be learned from the child’s painting, the children’s mental mistakes ideas; This is the art of therapy, more will not hurt the children self-esteem.

6, left standing

Case: deliberately jump from a height, the car skip along.

Ways: at home, planning for a penalty area, can be a name, location in order to rely on the wall, straight on the main door; the floor covered with cushions; prepare a clock or alarm clock, timing the time the child punishment.

Recommendation: Punishment should not be too obvious or is in place on the door, so as not to harm the child self-esteem; time with their children about appropriate punishment for too long, otherwise it will create more naughty child counter; as the child’s height to determine the pad height; punishment finished, asked the reasons children were punished, let the children know the wrong reasons.

7, reading, writing

Case: violent, lying, pilfering … …

Way: Choose a fixed penalty area or place a small table covered with padded; the penalty area inside with a pencil, drawing paper, colored pens, story books, colored paper … …; let the children write or read first, soften the anger emotions.

Recommendation: When the work is not immediately put down, may first ask the child to the penalty area to reflect; Do not rage against the dying children, and children first isolation, to ease each other’s emotions; other emotions calm down, the motivation for asking the child make mistakes.

8, the confiscation of favorite things

Case: constant arguing, throw things, do not accept toys … …

Way: the children throw the items shall be confiscated, as punishment.

Advice: put aside work and went to the child and letting the child know that her mother was paying attention and concern; tell them to throw the belongings properly, stop the noise, or they will be punished; let the children tell why the mistake , and the reasons for her mother angry.

9, row beans

Case: for the lack of patience, throw things and so on.

Method: Prepare a box, tray, which has red, green and other colored beads, some plastic jar; their children in punishment on the table, the various colors of beads, placed in the correct location.