Children's Education

Parents often see their children being bullied in kindergarten or school to worry about things.
Indeed, children affected by bullying, parents are very distressed, but not help. Could not allow children to learn to fight specifically. Revenge. Is really a headache.
Talk about my views and practices.
As a parent, there should be predictability of their own education and their children will have the character of what the future consequences.
Can not wait until the child has been bullied a soul-searching to think about how to change, this time to live to be powerless, and this process will be long and painful.
Even affect a child afraid of the park, do not want to go to school.
The child is very small, it should be said about 1 year old, they should focus on cultivating bravery and courage. Too much care. Concern. Will only make the child timid and squeamish.
Trip up the child, crying, never her, and did not see the same.
Some parents hurried past. They coax another rub. Pride and joy. Let the child to fall down the things that are wronged. Next to slip, and ensure a more fierce cry.
Knife handle planning a cut, bleeding. Adhesive bandages in a bag, but also to play, and. Do not mention in pain. Not so hypocritical.

Be independent personality. Outgoing personality, broad minded, courageous will, widespread interest.
Should have a broad, and generous, overweening, overwhelming momentum.

R, let the children try to be even. Foster the spirit of courage and exploration.

First of all, let the child learn at home, loud, bold expression of personal will.

And children to discuss many things, let the children aware of personal values. Know that I am not violating the sovereignty.

The blind and the constraints imposed, only to suppress thinking and beliefs.

Most of the children being bullied are introverted, timid. Lack of courage. But also at the most obedient, clever.

That my child a few things:

A second class, do the math, everyone says that should be done, many students changed. The result will make mistakes,

We did not change, if the class on the three correct answers, and later said she was proud of arrogance: “I think that’s right, of course, do not change. I did not listen to other people.”
Self-confidence.

Some of the kids like cliques, and this play is not, not, and that speech, she orthophoto Road: sub-you even r, us playing together.

Upright

And great friends over to play, learn a lot from the game and skills, then and peers or friends there will be little confidence and courage.

Physical fitness is also an important aspect, if there is conflict, inevitably pushing, fragile and old suffer not work.

Our physical well will Sanda, Taekwondo, Fighting has no disadvantage.

We will be a lot of skating, organ, tennis, badminton, martial arts, mahjong to all kinds of chess classes, not afraid to play. Although the individual is not necessarily very good, but without prejudice to exchange the children play, very popular, very with confidence.
However, some strong individual children, beyond the scope of a lack of confidence

When the kids the skills and more time playing with the junior partner with, dare to play will play, the natural confidence.

Children often complain that: “Xi Xi old command that we do this or that, even r, she does not dry.”
I said: “That you do not listen to her.”
“That she did not and we played”
“Then you do not play with her Well”
“But we want her to play this game”
When everyone is like when you play, who would dare to bully you do

For the junior students. In being bullied, can brave the loud accusations, often tries to dominate the other, if appropriate resistance, pressure him an absolutely ok
But most are tolerant and avoid long arrogance of others. Over time. When the other students to bully as a fun time. Even if the parents and teachers played down. But it will not be wronged students self-confidence increased. Shadow by the .

Only by relying on self-settlement is fundamental.
The same also applies to adults, imagine: If you suffered bullying and resentment. To accept other people’s comfort, advice is only a self-psychological depression, only in accordance with their own view that the most appropriate way to solve it comfortable.
After the path because of the community, it can also come forward by the parents.

When the encounter fails to stop violence against language, must learn to fight back violence.
I grew up on the child: and peer play, there are contradictions do not tell parents and teachers. Own solution. Children are also affected by bullying a child, I never interfere. Let her themselves.
The child must learn to think and act independently, changing the environment, parent education can not do everything.
Cared for at home care, love say love, laughter, and very smart. It’s all good. Can admission into the school, parents are not around, having problems, I do not know why, and by the bullying do not know what to do. But also dependent parents come forward. Some even dare to tell teachers and parents, even worse.

In fact, complain to the teacher the students did not like love. Because many often fail to distinguish right and wrong. Now have only one child, who criticized the weight of the not so good. Teachers are hard to do.
On humility,
I says to her: “You’re playing a toy, some of the kids want to play, you are willing to give, give, you do not want to, not to.

This has two aspects:
1. In regard to other people’s power, first to protect their own power.
2. Should not let other people what I want to have to get the concept.
     Similarly, the self must also abide by its rules.

3 years old, have a child in the strange music, playing in her car, about the same size next to a little boy to play, she did not speak, they did, the kids wanted to drag her down, she was brutally pushed about the boy crying, and we parents are standing outside, the other parents to flee the past.
This time, the children looked at us, I did not go in, but she smiled and nodded washed.
 This has two meanings:
1. Good for you. Be certain;
2. Do not worry, Mom has Dad do.
    Then do not take the initiative to criticize and humility.
    Let the children solve their own way.
This is the first time children and strangers outside the conflict. Made a good start.

The other did not say even after the parents go in areas where objective, the child away.

I thought, if there are other views, I will confidently theory about it, give the child an example.

I teach children:
     Uproar in the companion play, was beaten a bit, pushing the fall that do not say sorry, nor crying, but rather endured the pain, get up and play with, this is the must have style and character,
Some people are at a disadvantage, lost, angry, or a freak, she criticized: why why. The game is so old you Silver, who then lost it.
Speed connection, it earned a compensation. This is the rules of the game, one of life’s philosophy.
Now is the class table with the most mischievous boys, the parents said to do business, poor management. Emphasized several times last semester seats, all because of troublemaker, bullying at the same table, school address, influence others and lectures, and parents find the school. required substitutions.
This semester the teacher of my child and he had to arrange the same table. We did not affected, there is progress in academic achievement over the previous semester. Exam period is a matter percentage.
At the same table and often with chocolate to children, and she said I could not be,
“Oh, not me, he insisted to me.” Taste a little flattery.
I sometimes tease her: there are students in the class bully you?
She quickly raises his eyebrows, very proud to answer: Who dares to bully me ah!!!!

Male and female students are often bullied by her come forward to settle. And to show off to us triumphantly.
All this is indicative of the brave, generous, self-confidence, selecting young pioneers highest number of votes when the whole class, not raise their hands in respect of a student, a high political status.

I bought a lot, such as <<tunnel warfare, mine warfare >>,<< >>,<< soldier hero sons and daughters >.,<< Zhang has worked>> so early revolutionary feature films, she is like. May not have that many home of.
Such films on the train a child courage and unrivaled heroism helpful.
Let the children know: If you are brave enough, not even r, terrible.
Life so, learning the same.
See more of Jackie Chan and Chow Yun Fat’s martial arts, shooting film, the child’s personality. Temperament and demeanor great benefit.
Sports competition programs to train children to make progress, persistent positive, never give up faith.

Children’s soccer, F1, diving, tennis is very interesting. Schumacher’s performance last year is satisfied. This year has been better.
Crazy about Chen Peisi the pieces, learn optimism and humor.
   
    In the brave, I am not in favor of the elderly and the nanny with children.
Because in some brave and will train the project,
For them it: For your safety, do you prefer to play.
Good account of fear of trouble. (For understandable original)
However, curb the child’s spirit.

I says to her: You just play, safe for me to control.
We cultivate children’s courageous ways:

1. Altitude juggling
Children 6 months can be drilled, holding the child, and gradually throw up, then catch can 50-70 cm away from the hand.
Training in child and quickly fall vacant affordability.
But pay attention to chandeliers and ceiling fans.

2. Pyramid.
From around 1 year old, standing on his father’s shoulders, stand up straight Lateral Raise both hands, both hands grasp the child by the father legs, control of the child. And gradually open up, training, my father could be slowly forward, three-dimensional thinking training balance and feel.
First, some children can be hanged on the roof like gadgets, so she was looking up, and be able to come to win.
Do not look down, reduce the fear.

3. Volley after the jump.
Can be left to practice.
Standing outside the back edge of the table, next hop, jump farther, the better. Father caught behind. This is a courageous high coefficient of games, many people subconsciously afraid to jump back left vacant, including adults .
This is a test for the child to the parents trust. Because of the jump, thanks to adult will bear up.
Parents should not be hundred percent safety is .99%, can not play.

Is not instill a lot of things deliberately and training, but in peacetime the training of potential transfer ink,
Healthy growth in inadvertently.