Let the children eat bitter
Posted by admin on Wednesday Sep 1, 2010 Under Children's EducationThe whole family took part in a House by the clearing organization of the bush care group bridge hiking (hiking-HSBC tree top walk), back and forth for three hours before they finished the whole process. Accompanied with a pair of 5,7-year-old little sister, has just started walking, he was carrying his father and the maid, and to 90% of the time spent on adult’s back.
Gone one-sixth of the distance, my 4-year-old daughter could not help crying, “so hot, so hot!” Did not hesitate to take up her grandmother, arrived at the collection point Range Station. After that, my daughter asked to take for granted: “Daddy hold me.” We took a long time, told her that can be seen in front of the monkey, she agreed to go their own, touch the leaves along the way, watch the grass, looking for monkeys, up and down when the pull step, back for a while, finally finished the only part of the jungle.
Return to collection point, her daughter said to me: “Mummy, I want to eat KFC.” I said: “Yes, but you have to go back to their own, can not let Daddy hold you to it?” My daughter is very loud Answer: “can.” The little girl does, though could not help asking why has not arrived yet, but insist on keeping their adults to help her. Along the way, we see the monkey trees and streams in the swimming fish. Of course, her daughter also received praise from fellow people, a bright eye-catching.
After returning home, I asked my mother: “Why are you back at the children?” The mother replied: “She has been crying hot, I feel very sorry for her, than her children were adults carrying, she has to find their own path . “I think other parents should also think of it, too poor, and back about it.
In many ways, today’s children compared with when we were children, life is much better, but it also makes their lack of hardship environment. For them, not suffer too much time, but too little. In the hard life can be naturally formed perseverance, self-care ability, responsibility and skills, today’s children is not easy to develop. Therefore, our challenge is to create some opportunity to help them develop these qualities.
Young, the elderly have told us: “do not eat face a significant loss of small losses, small hard not eat big pain.” Child was a child, eating a little bitter, encountered some difficulties, is a good thing. If we bother, but instead of a child to do something; fear of children, if we suffer, and bear the responsibility of the child, although eliminates the child’s crying and struggling, but deprived children develop good character and self-development capacity of the opportunity This is a great jeopardized.